<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:itunes="http://www.itunes.com/dtds/podcast-1.0.dtd" xmlns:googleplay="http://www.google.com/schemas/play-podcasts/1.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Sarima’s Substack]]></title><description><![CDATA[My personal Substack]]></description><link>https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com</link><image><url>https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!OfE9!,w_256,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F70886722-1c23-44eb-b963-e2cec648fbbd_1280x720.jpeg</url><title>Sarima’s Substack</title><link>https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com</link></image><generator>Substack</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2026 18:25:11 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com/feed" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><copyright><![CDATA[Sarima Bekwele- Orlu]]></copyright><language><![CDATA[en]]></language><webMaster><![CDATA[sarimabekweleorlu@substack.com]]></webMaster><itunes:owner><itunes:email><![CDATA[sarimabekweleorlu@substack.com]]></itunes:email><itunes:name><![CDATA[Sarima Bekwele- Orlu]]></itunes:name></itunes:owner><itunes:author><![CDATA[Sarima Bekwele- Orlu]]></itunes:author><googleplay:owner><![CDATA[sarimabekweleorlu@substack.com]]></googleplay:owner><googleplay:email><![CDATA[sarimabekweleorlu@substack.com]]></googleplay:email><googleplay:author><![CDATA[Sarima Bekwele- Orlu]]></googleplay:author><itunes:block><![CDATA[Yes]]></itunes:block><item><title><![CDATA[2023: Patchwork Progress, Finding My North.]]></title><description><![CDATA[Can you fathom that it&#8217;s already 2024?]]></description><link>https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com/p/2023-patchwork-progress-finding-my</link><guid isPermaLink="false">https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com/p/2023-patchwork-progress-finding-my</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Sarima Bekwele- Orlu]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Wed, 03 Jan 2024 20:08:50 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/24a55bcc-13e9-4a5c-9330-6813a80b16ae_640x213.jpeg" length="0" type="image/jpeg"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Can you fathom that it&#8217;s already 2024? Before we plunge into the future, let&#8217;s pause for a moment to rewind and fully appreciate the incredible journey that was 2023. </p><p>The previous year was a rollercoaster of ups, downs, and everything in the middle. We worked tirelessly, confronted obstacles, and crafted memories that will remain etched in our hearts for a lifetime.</p><div class="subscription-widget-wrap-editor" data-attrs="{&quot;url&quot;:&quot;https://sarimabekweleorlu.substack.com/subscribe?&quot;,&quot;text&quot;:&quot;Subscribe&quot;,&quot;language&quot;:&quot;en&quot;}" data-component-name="SubscribeWidgetToDOM"><div class="subscription-widget show-subscribe"><div class="preamble"><p class="cta-caption">Thanks for reading Sarima&#8217;s Substack! Subscribe for free to receive new posts and support my work.</p></div><form class="subscription-widget-subscribe"><input type="email" class="email-input" name="email" placeholder="Type your email&#8230;" tabindex="-1"><input type="submit" class="button primary" value="Subscribe"><div class="fake-input-wrapper"><div class="fake-input"></div><div class="fake-button"></div></div></form></div></div><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!zQuO!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F1cc16b79-b438-475e-9b88-364fadfa6b18_735x245.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" 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stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><p><strong>Exams Choked</strong></p><p>2023 began with a real nail-biter&#8212;exams! I'll be real; it wasn't all smooth sailing. Early on, I faced a bit of a struggle with grades. The pressure was on, especially with the Mock 1 exams looming large. I found myself constantly on edge, battling anxiety and panicking before each paper.</p><p>When the grades from those nerve-wracking exams finally rolled in, I was expecting a bit of a shocker. But surprise surprise&#8212;I actually did better than I had anticipated! It was a massive relief and a testament to the hard work I'd put in. That was a turning point&#8212;a realization that pouring more effort into my studies truly pays off.</p><p>The whole exam process was intense, no doubt about it. The sleepless nights, the study buddies becoming family, and the sheer dedication of breathing in textbooks&#8212;oh, those were some wild days! But you know what? It was all worth it. Exams became a great bonding experience for most of us, a shared journey of growth and resilience.</p><p>Now, as I gear up for Mock 2 and the upcoming IGCSE exams, I've learned a crucial lesson: the more effort and dedication I invest, the greater the rewards. Here's hoping for even better grades and a newfound confidence in tackling academic challenges.</p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg" width="640" height="213" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:213,&quot;width&quot;:640,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:21574,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!EB-W!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F93c6aa99-1e3e-4cf5-809c-e3a94b5b0060_640x213.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div></div></div></a></figure></div><p><strong>DOE Expedition: Soaking in Serenity</strong></p><p>The Duke of Edinburgh expedition that took place earlier this year. May took me on an adventure that not only opened my eyes but also touched my soul in ways I never imagined.</p><p>We settled by the tranquil seaside, an experience that unveiled layers of my Nigerian roots. The serene environment, untouched by modern influences, had a magnetic pull. It was a magical world where time seemed to stand still, where nature whispered stories of ancient times.</p><p>For three days, it felt like we stepped into a different dimension. Our exploration led us deep into the uncharted parts of Ibeju-Lekki, unveiling hidden treasures I never knew existed. Interacting with the locals was a revelation. I met souls as pure as the untouched landscapes&#8212;Pan-Africans who had crossed borders to make a living fishing here in Nigeria.</p><p>The rain joined our expedition, blessing us multiple times. Amidst the showers, we learned about the significance of water to the Celestians and the deep-rooted traditions&#8212;a glimpse into Africa's spiritual history before colonialism reshaped its narratives.</p><p>We immersed ourselves in a world where modernity faded, replaced by tales of the land and the people who called it home. It was a cultural awakening, a reminder of the richness embedded in our heritage.</p><p>Every step on that expedition felt like a leap into an untold chapter of Nigeria&#8217;s story&#8212;a chapter etched in simplicity, resilience, and the profound beauty of untouched landscapes.</p><p></p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!jDAU!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Faedfee77-60c8-4a46-a0c4-774deef98932_735x245.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!jDAU!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Faedfee77-60c8-4a46-a0c4-774deef98932_735x245.jpeg 424w, 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Trust me, it wasn't just a win; it was a symphony of dedication, hard work, and more than a little bit of nerve-wracking decision-making.</p><p>Getting that scholarship wasn't a walk in the park. It demanded more thought, effort, and action than anything I've ever tackled. But it was worth every drop of sweat. Stepping into those classes and diving into the coursework was like stepping into a world where I discovered that my potential was beyond what I ever imagined.</p><p>At TKS, I found myself reading and working on projects that even 30-year-olds would find challenging. It's mind-blowing to be surrounded by teens who seem to operate on an Einsteinian level. But you know what? It's incredibly inspiring. The classes are not just classes; they're a beautiful blend of innovation, curiosity, and boundless learning.</p><p>Let me introduce you to our <em>unique</em> teacher. Picture this&#8212;a wise, edgy 12-year-old (though wayyyyyyyyyyyyy older than us) who is a genius in their own right. Their guidance is unparalleled, and their passion for knowledge is infectious. It's not just about learning; it's about unlocking potential and pushing boundaries.</p><p>TKS has been more than an educational program; it's a transformative journey that has challenged my limits, expanded my horizons, and shown me the vastness of my capabilities. I'm beyond grateful for this opportunity that's shaping not just my academic path but my entire outlook on the world.</p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_848,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_1272,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_1456,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw"><img src="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg" width="734" height="272" data-attrs="{&quot;src&quot;:&quot;https://substack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com/public/images/ca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg&quot;,&quot;srcNoWatermark&quot;:null,&quot;fullscreen&quot;:null,&quot;imageSize&quot;:null,&quot;height&quot;:272,&quot;width&quot;:734,&quot;resizeWidth&quot;:null,&quot;bytes&quot;:33358,&quot;alt&quot;:null,&quot;title&quot;:null,&quot;type&quot;:&quot;image/jpeg&quot;,&quot;href&quot;:null,&quot;belowTheFold&quot;:true,&quot;topImage&quot;:false,&quot;internalRedirect&quot;:null,&quot;isProcessing&quot;:false,&quot;align&quot;:null,&quot;offset&quot;:false}" class="sizing-normal" alt="" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_424,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 424w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_848,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 848w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_1272,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 1272w, https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!JAXk!,w_1456,c_limit,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fca5fffe7-dae7-44d5-aafd-8262ad760414_734x272.jpeg 1456w" sizes="100vw" loading="lazy"></picture><div class="image-link-expand"><div class="pencraft pc-display-flex pc-gap-8 pc-reset"><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container restack-image"><svg role="img" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 20 20" fill="none" stroke-width="1.5" stroke="var(--color-fg-primary)" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg"><g><title></title><path d="M2.53001 7.81595C3.49179 4.73911 6.43281 2.5 9.91173 2.5C13.1684 2.5 15.9537 4.46214 17.0852 7.23684L17.6179 8.67647M17.6179 8.67647L18.5002 4.26471M17.6179 8.67647L13.6473 6.91176M17.4995 12.1841C16.5378 15.2609 13.5967 17.5 10.1178 17.5C6.86118 17.5 4.07589 15.5379 2.94432 12.7632L2.41165 11.3235M2.41165 11.3235L1.5293 15.7353M2.41165 11.3235L6.38224 13.0882"></path></g></svg></button><button tabindex="0" type="button" class="pencraft pc-reset pencraft icon-container view-image"><svg xmlns="http://www.w3.org/2000/svg" width="20" height="20" viewBox="0 0 24 24" fill="none" stroke="currentColor" stroke-width="2" stroke-linecap="round" stroke-linejoin="round" class="lucide lucide-maximize2 lucide-maximize-2"><polyline points="15 3 21 3 21 9"></polyline><polyline points="9 21 3 21 3 15"></polyline><line x1="21" x2="14" y1="3" y2="10"></line><line x1="3" x2="10" y1="21" y2="14"></line></svg></button></div></div></div></a></figure></div><p></p><p><strong>Twists, Turns, and Tresses</strong></p><p>Initially, the decision to sport twists was merely a style choice. However, my hair had its own narrative in mind. It seemed to foster a bond of its own volition, intertwining and edging toward a dreading path, presenting an unforeseen crossroads. The prospect of nearly-locked dreads was a hair-raising moment, yet it became an avenue for personal growth and reflection.</p><p>Living with near-dreadlocks became a unique experience. My hair displayed an array of personalities, assuming shapes and forms that lent an air of whimsy to my daily routine. Conversations with my hair&#8212;deciding on looks for the day&#8212;became commonplace, adding a touch of adventure to each morning.</p><p>Navigating windy days became a picturesque affair as my hair gracefully danced in the breeze, showcasing its intricate twists. It was a picturesque display, albeit one that garnered attention.</p><p>Amidst this dynamic relationship with my hair, a profound transformation unfolded within me. I began to develop an ardent appreciation for the inherent beauty of my natural hair, fostering a deeper sense of care and affection for this unique aspect of my identity.</p><p>While the journey of twists and almost-dreadlocks may seem whimsical, it bore invaluable lessons in patience, self-care, and the celebration of individuality.</p><p></p><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!v_UM!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F905c2fcc-8ed5-4d46-beda-a3347cebc96d_733x245.jpeg" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!v_UM!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2F905c2fcc-8ed5-4d46-beda-a3347cebc96d_733x245.jpeg 424w, 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It's been a year of growth, surprises, and learning curves that have shaped me in ways I never imagined. Now, with 2024 peeking around the corner, I'm gearing up for the next big adventure. I've got plans brewing, dreams to chase, and a whole lot of zest to tackle whatever comes my way. Here's to embracing the unknown, laughing at the unexpected plot twists, and diving headfirst into a year that promises to be an epic sequel to this wild ride we've had. So, cheers to the good times, the tough lessons, and the unwritten pages waiting for our stories in 2024.</p><p></p><p></p><p><em>My 12 takeaways for 2023:</em></p><ol><li><p>Life&#8217;s like a rollercoaster&#8212;there are crazy loops, but it&#8217;s the twists that make it exciting.</p></li><li><p>Sometimes the toughest challenges teach the coolest lessons. They&#8217;re like hidden levels in a video game.</p></li><li><p>Embracing who you are, quirks and all, is like leveling up in the game of self-love.</p></li><li><p>Friends are your ultimate squad&#8212;they make every level of life more fun.</p></li><li><p>Exploring different cultures and histories is like discovering new DLCs in the game of understanding.</p></li><li><p>Hard work may not be flashy, but it&#8217;s the secret code to unlocking achievements.</p></li><li><p>Meeting brainiacs and cool thinkers expands your world&#8212;it&#8217;s like adding expansion packs to your mind.</p></li><li><p>Nature&#8217;s like the ultimate sanctuary, a peaceful pause button in this fast-paced game.</p></li><li><p>Tech is the game changer&#8212;like getting power-ups in real life, it&#8217;s all about how you use them.</p></li><li><p>Planning for the future feels a bit like strategizing for a boss fight&#8212;scary but super exciting!</p></li></ol><ol start="11"><li><p>Change is like a software update&#8212;annoying at first, but it makes things better in the long run.</p></li><li><p>Moments of uncertainty are like a tricky level in a game&#8212;they&#8217;re challenging, but beating them feels <em>mwah</em>.</p></li></ol><div class="captioned-image-container"><figure><a class="image-link image2 is-viewable-img" target="_blank" href="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!QKio!,f_auto,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fcd7c421f-9c4c-496b-a895-e12f8fe543ef_1000x1383.png" data-component-name="Image2ToDOM"><div class="image2-inset"><picture><source type="image/webp" srcset="https://substackcdn.com/image/fetch/$s_!QKio!,w_424,c_limit,f_webp,q_auto:good,fl_progressive:steep/https%3A%2F%2Fsubstack-post-media.s3.amazonaws.com%2Fpublic%2Fimages%2Fcd7c421f-9c4c-496b-a895-e12f8fe543ef_1000x1383.png 424w, 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